I sit at a bar with my funnest drunk friend and we talk about our week and some guy walks up puts his hand in my face and says his name is so-and-so. I really wish I could remember his name because belive me I'd include it. He looks at me up and down as I sit in my chair...creep. He says blah blah blah...and I am insulting him with everything I have. He stares at me with his eyes wide and mouth open. GROSS. He says shit like, "where have you been all my life?" I just want to kick him in the balls. He says shit like, "where you girls going tonite" and "man I wanna just go cruise" I say "we are going out of town and if you had a car you could go too" and "maybe if you even had a phone I could give you my number...oh wait...I don't even give out my number" and guess what...GUESS WHAT THE FUCK I REALIZED...This bastard never heard a word of it. I talked and he imagined what was being said. He stared at me as if I was sitting there naked. He was only engaged with his eyes and the tiny tiny brain he has underneath his waistline. Why the heck did he even come up to me...if not to listen. How could he even think for a minute that a girl like me would be like, "hey yeah we can just get it on right now"????? My funnest drunk friend was so worried that I was gonna slap this mutherfucker at any moment. She kept saying "bex...." ...."BEX"....."bex" Because she knew that the smart ass shit flying out of my mouth was just getting worse. I swear if he had anything I was saying he'd want to have slap me his damn self. I don't get it. I know what I look like....I'm not that fine.
I got on Plenty of fish....twice. Both for only a few days. The first time I tried to delete my profile within the first 24 hours. Honestly, this is just not for me. I'll tell you that I do know poeple that it works for...I'm not that girl. I think I'm too crazy for it. All ALL ALL the messages I get ALL say how sexy I am. OK, SEXY is a state of mind douche bag!!! SEXY like regular average jane like me sexy is NOT about looks. SEXY just on looks is reserved for fucking Megan Fox and Kim Kardashian fools...it aint gonna happen on Plenty of Fish. Sexy is how I clean my house, cook a decent meal, dress for work, take care of my daughter and handle my own bank account!!! Sexy is the fact that I DEPEND ON NO ONE...and live my life to the fullest. And just because you clicked on my profile and see a glimpse does not mean that you can message me "what up sexy" and I am actually going to respond to that. Of all the messages I got....I only responded to just a few. I only actually talked to 2 guys. The first wanted to talk on the phone and I actually did. He asked me on a date and I said yes. By the end of our conversation he had us goin out twice that week, and in two weeks he said I was to go to a wedding with him in Houston...??????.....uhhh...NO! The second guy, I really did think he was GREAT! We talked often and I really enjoyed getting to know him. We did go to dinner and he was NO weirdo, perv, freak...lol. He was like someone who could be a great friend....and he was cute. I just really liked him. After we went to dinner there wasnt really any plans for another date...our schedules were majorly conflicting....I guess. Anyway, we did plan to meet up somewhere for something, and he kept saying how excited he was for that....then he stood me up. I was PISSED. I've never been stood up before in my life...and it was bullshit. Oh geez....I was done. I didn't talk to him again. Actually, he tried to but I was very harsh to him which I later felt bad for, but I cant help it. I had explained to him how I pushed people away very easily, and he did say that I was right about how I explained how I was. Its just icky.
I'm such a punk when it comes to dating...I just can't do it. I really hate putting myself though any of this kind of junk. When I go out I don't look to find someone. I sit and chill....dumbass people approach me and I'm as rude as can be....they just see what they want to see. I'm not the kind of broad that's just gonna go home with you because I look the part. I can't describe myself in an about me section of a fucking profile. I am just unable to take random guys sending me messages left and right....its pointless.
All my family friends co workers and even people who dont really know me that well always say what a great girl I am. I mean I know I'm not ugly....I'm funny....spontaneous...and very interesting. I'm not a dumb, trashy, careless human...but I see all of those types of people in relationships....I don't get it.
I was single/celebate for allllmost a year in 08...I did it because I swear this guy was trying to force me to have sex with him. I literally had to fight him off of me. It was the stupidest scenario EVER....I never realized this but that that shit is real!! I looked into his eyes and he had the face of a mad man. Then, he went and said that I was crazy over him and stalking him...Yea after I ran out of his fucking house and changed my phone number...yeah...I'm so fucking psycho. Anyway, the point is that I pulled out a journal I had that year...I read back to that time in my life and I was SHOCKED!! I felt like I wasn't even reading my own words. The girl that wrote that....The girl I was at that time was so smart. DAMN, I had my shit together. I was so organized...so strong. I don't even feel half that strong right now. I'd like to go back to the person I was then, but I know its not possible. I know that she's gone...I killed her...lol. I went back to my ex and let him pour lighter fluid on her and I lit the match for him to destroy her. All I can do, All I can know is that its possible to be happy sailing this world alone. I didn't want to not date for a year...put a time frame on it...I know that this time, I have the "Idiot Man Repellant" on blast. I just wish I could have fun out alone without men and even women thinking I'm out to just hook up...its not true...I don't want you OR YOUR MAN!!! There are so few men that even interest me...its funny!!
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